Sunday, October 16, 2011

289/365

"Mom, do you know why I'm dressed like this? 
 Because Kaden made me into a Diva Girl! I even have a phone!!
(then she rummaged through her purse to get her phone)

(So, apparently to become a diva, here's what you need:
 a purse, a paper phone, a hat and a skirt and a pair of princess shoes.  
That's all it takes. Now you can become a diva too! 


(the best part of what Avery said, is that she can't say her "r"s very well, it when she was talking to me, it was  more like: "Mom, do you know why I'm dressed like this? 
It's because Kaden made me into a Diva Goel"

Saturday, October 15, 2011

288/365

Happy Birthday Connor!!! 
 

Dear Connor,
I can't believe this year has come and gone so quickly.  You have brought our family so much joy. Your brothers and sisters love you and take care of you all the time.  They love to hug you, hold you, feed you, play with you.  Everytime they see you, they all stop what they are doing and run over to you and say, "Connor!!!!" They love to see your smile. They love to make you laugh.

Connor, you are our last little one and I just want you to stay small just a little longer.  You make me so happy to be a mom. Being our last, you have helped me appreciate every little moment, every little milestone, every little smile.  I love how you cuddle. I love how you laugh when you you try to roll away when I change your diaper. I love your open mouth kisses.  You are my special buddy! I love you so much!

We had a fun little party tonight with your Grandma's and Grandpa's. Mom is feeling a little bit guilty that you didn't get a fancy cake, but you didn't seem to mind, You LOVED!!! your cake.




Opening your presents were a little too hard for you, but your favorite toy was a plastic want that makes noises when you move it.  Luckily, Brighton loved all of your presents. He's going to "borrow" them until you are big enough to play with them yourself. 
Oh, and he loved your cake too! 






Friday, October 14, 2011

287/365

Although I don't do the canning in our family, I do get to reap the rewards.  I have to say that FRESH grape juice is AMAZING!!!  Thanks Bri for all your hard work!

When I say fresh, I mean FRESH!!!

Brian picked these today about 10 am (Thanks John and Shauna for being such great gardners!)




A few hours later, all those grapes turned into this.
Oh my gosh, AMAZING!



32 Bottles later.... we've got grape juice to last us a while.  YUM!


286/365

Have I done any good

As I was cleaning the kitchen tonight, somewhat grumbling about how my day turned out, this song came into my mind:

Have I done any good in the world today?
Have I helped anyone in need?
Have I cheered up the sad?
Or made someone feel glad?
If not I have failed indeed.

Here's the back story.... 
(it's a minute by minute journal log... I apologize in advance for the lengthy post)


It's been a rough week.  Sick kids all week long, and then today Brian was home with the goomba as well.  All I wanted to do today was get my life back to normal, have a little time to clean my house, get my laundry caught up from the countless sheets and clothes I've had to wash due to peuking kids and work on  this cake I'm doing for a photo shoot next week that is going to be ridiculously time consuming.

Well, as typical days go... life happened.  Here's a re-cap:

Took Kaden to school. Got home and took Avery to dance.  Ran to the cake store. Picked up Avery from dance. Hurried through the drive through at Chick fil-A for a quick lunch because Brighton was going to be late for preschool.  Got home just in time for Brights car pool to show up and sent him on his way. Hurried and did Avery's hair and got her all dolled up for school picture day and sent her out the door.  Whew! Three kids are in school. Sick hubby is asleep and Connor is napping as well. I'm about ready to fold a load of laundry that's been sitting on my couch since last night when I hear crying.
Yep... Connor's awake.  Really?  Naptime is mandatory around here! He is not allowed to be awake when all the kids are at school!!  When I go into get the little guy, I realize he's burning up.  I check his temp and it's over 101.  AFter about 20 minutes, I finally get him calmed down and he's about asleep in my arms when the doorbell rings.  I ignore it, because I just want to hold my baby and make sure he's comfortable.  And truthfully, I don't want to talk to anyone, I'm already really behind on my scheduled "'to do list" for the day. The doorbell rings again.  OK. OK.. I will answer it.
It's one of my old young women who came over to see if I was busy because she was having a major cake disaster and was in need of help. She had told a friend that she'd make her wedding cake and it had all crumbled to the ground and it needed to be done in less than 4 hours.  Ahhh! Seriously?? How in the world does she think she can fix a wedding cake in 4 hours when the whole thing is ruined?
(This is about the time I start to grumble.  This is not on my to-do list! I've been so good the last few week about following my schedule and actually feeling like I have my life a bit organized.  All I wanted was to have a bit of quiet time to get some stuff done before the kids got home from school.)

So I take my sick kid over to her house to help her start over on a wedding cake she was trying to do without really knowing what she was doing. Luckily the grocery store had frozen sheet cakes so we could do actually pull this off! I Stayed there for a while to help her fix things, then ran home just in time for Brighton to get home from school and give poor Connor some medicine to lower his temp.  He finally went down for a nap, and I took Brighton to the store to get Brian some Sprite I had promised him a couple hours earlier.  (Ahhh!! I haven't even been around to take care of my sick hubby!!!.. this day is getting nuts!) We got the Sprite and made it to the kids school just in time for the school "store" to open.  Kaden has been dying to buy a toy at the school book fair with his own money.  He wanted to get the "Airblaster".  A funnel like thing that apparently shoots air about 20 feet. (All this could be his for a low price of $12.95!) There were only 3 of them, so he was very worried they would go fast. We had made a deal that I'd meet him after school so we could get it.  Luckily he was patiently waiting for me in the office (with his awesome thigh length black and red striped socks on for crazy sock day.... he looked pretty cute!) and we got to the book fair.  The good news was, the Airblaster was still there.  He ran over to it, (actually crawling between some kid's mom's legs to make sure he got this gun thing that no one was even trying to get at the time!) He grabbled his little baggie of money and handed it to the librarian.  He was one happy kid! We ran home and he wanted to put this dumb toy together.  All I have to say is that some toys are a pain in the behind to put together! This stupid thing took me forever to put together!!! Luckily I got it put together and off he went to play with his new toy. Now it was time for diner to be made. Got that taken care of, fed the fam and started on our nightime routine. Homework, showers, prayers, etc. etc.  I didn't even get to the kids doing their evening jobs, I just wanted them in bed. They lucked out tonight!

Wow.. I can't believe me my day is almost gone.... now it's 8:00 pm... I finally getting to clean the dishes from dinner and get to all the housework and laundry I was planning on doing all day long.  Well the kids are in bed. I's quiet! Finally... no distractions! I went into a cleaning zone and  happily my mind began to clear..........It's always great when cleaning can de-stress me.
No,w back to the reason for this lengthy post.

As I was enjoying cleaning my dishes without any distractions, the song came to my mind, but this time, I had some answers:

Have I done any good in the world today? 
Have I helped anyone in need?   (yep, I did that)
Have I cheered up the sad?  (I did get to cuddle my sick little baby in my arms and calm him down)
And made someone feel glad? (I was lucky enough to see Avery's big smile when I praised her for picking up her things on the floor without being asked)
If not, I have failed indeed.  (hmmmm... maybe the day wasn't that bad after all)

The truth is... life is all about perspective.  I need to remember that it's what I do for other people that's really important.  Heavenly Father  doesn't care if I have a couple extra loads of laundry or if my dishwasher needs to be filled.  He DOES care that I' do good in the world,  that I help those in need. I've cheered up the sad, and make others feel glad... and as the song goes, if I don't do that, I've failed indeed.
When I look at this day with a clearer vision, I'm happy about how it turned out.    Even with a little grumbling, I did the right thing... not because I felt like I had to, but because in heart, I really wanted to.  I'm happy I didn't fail on what matters most. It really was a good day.


Thursday, October 13, 2011

285/365

Halloween Crafting!
I decided to do a little updating on my Halloween decorations this year.  
(It looks much cooler in real-life)
Once I had it all decorated, Kaden said, "Whoa mom... this is the best our house has EVER looked for Halloween!" 
It's always good to have your kids approval.

Like My Bottles?  How did I get such cool bottles you ask?



I MADE THEM!  Yep, Angie and I had a "craft night" the other night till about 1:00 am making these fine bottles.  We had way too much fun with modge podge.  Who knew that stuff could be so cool?

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

284/365

We had a good report at Parent Teacher Conferences today.

Kaden is the best reader in his class! He's reading and comprehending at a 4th grade level!!

And Avery is doing good too.  My favorite comment her teacher made was, "I love how confident Avery is" Apparently every time she does a worksheet she will runs up to the teacher and says, "Miss Crane, I'm really good at this huh?"  Oh, I bet kindergarten teachers have incredibly funny stories.  

It's always nice to have positive feedback.  Hopefully that will last for years to come. (That's directed to you kids, you know!.... Good grades, good reports from now till the day you graduate college you hear?) 

Now, I'm a bit worried about our 3rd child though... 
I asked him to take something over to Angie for me today, and he put it in his mouth, started barking and acted like a dog all the way to and from Angies.  When Angie took the paper out of his mouth... yep, his mouth, he barked and panted.  Hmmmmm.  Maybe we shouldn't expect great parent teacher conference reports for Sparky... oh I mean Brighton. :)






Tuesday, October 11, 2011

283/365

Today was crazy hair day at school. 
And boy did we have some crazy hair. 


Well, from the front, her hair doesn't look too crazy, but......
 Check out the back! 
Is this awesome or what??

Monday, October 10, 2011

Sunday, October 9, 2011

281/365

Avery couldn't miss out on all the fun.  Today she asked us if she could have her training wheels off.

She did AWESOME!!!

Way to go Avery! You are now in the pro bike rider club with your brother!

(pics coming a bit later. I was too busy taking video, forgot to get the actual camera)

Saturday, October 8, 2011

280/365

Life as we know it has changed forever.
He decided to climb up the stairs for the first time today.
He wasn't afraid. He wasn't tired. He didn't want to stop.  He made it to the bonus room (about 20 steps) in about a minute.  Then went straight for the toys!
Oh boy! Here we go!!!

Friday, October 7, 2011

279/365

It's Late Over Time!

Wow! Crazy Night. 

I had to deliver a wedding cake tonight before late over so I was already in a rush. I felt pretty lucky that everything worked out so nicely.  

Kids were coming over at 6pm
Left LaCaille at 5:40
Got home right at 6:00
Walked in, gave the babysitter money then heard the doorbell rang,
...it was the pizza guy! 
Put the pizza in the kitchen and started cutting up apples and all the cousins showed up.
Whew! Couldn't have timed that any better.  
If the night goes by this perfect, I won't realize I'm exhausted since I went to bed at 3am this morning. 
Thank goodness I have the best nieces and nephews in the world.  They are wonderful kids, great friends, and love to be with eachother.  That makes watching 11 kids under the age of 9 all worth it.  

Late over was awesome tonight.. the kids made spy gear. (they can get so creative)
Ok.. let me see if I can remember all the gear:
 Ear piece 
Spy Glasses
Belts and Headbands
Spy watch
Sword


Thursday, October 6, 2011

278/365

Brighton wanted to help me make my bed today.  He did it all by himself.
Way to go buddy! You are such a good helper!

As I'm talking about this cute little guy, I thought I'd share what he said to me tonight as he was sitting on the potty.
Brighton:
"Mommyyyy!!! I need you to get the toilet paper. All my poop ran out"

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

277/365

Sunday was a wonderful day.
Kaden FINALLY got the confidence to ride his bike!!!!! He's had his bike for over a year and has been a little too timid to ride on his own. We've practiced with him over and over, but he's just been a little nervous.
Sunday we decided to try again.  I don't know what happened, but all that fear is gone and now he's is awesome! He LOVES his bike and rides it every day!
Today Brian picked him up from school so they could go on a bike ride at the park.  He thought he was pretty special to have the one on one time with dad.  For the long ride around the park,  Brian had bought him his favorite "sport" drink.  Gatorade Perfom.

Gatorade Perform is Kaden's drink of choice when he goes up skiing with Brian.  It makes him ski harder, jump higher, and ride down the hill faster.  He never goes to the resort without it.
                                                           It's a miracle drink.
When he got home from his bike ride today, he came in the house and told me how awesome he did bike riding. He said, "mom, that Gatorade Perform totally make me go faster than Dad on my bike! It worked so good! I bet I will be able to beat a purple belt at karate tonight!"
Then at karate, Brian said he was the first to volunteer to spar the higher belt kids and he was in their face the whole time.  He's usually pretty timid when he has to spar (fight other kids) but tonight, he still had Gatorade Perform in his system so he was on fire!!!
I'm so glad we are able to purchase the confidence enhancing miracle drink locally without a prescription.  We really lucked out.

Kade... you are awesome buddy!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

276/365

Got a text today with a picture similar to this that said,
"That was scary. But the light is fixed"

With these vaulted ceilings, Brian gets a little creative when he needs to fix stuff. This was probably not one of the safest idea's he's had. And then what do I do? Make him get back up there so I can take a picture.  What is our problem?
To describe the picture:
4 tall kitchen chairs
A 6' table ontop of the chairs
the ladder ontop of the table
Brian at the top of our ceileing just inches away from the stairwell going to our basement. He's literally 3 floors up right now. It kinda looks like a fort my kids would have made, but a lot more dangerous.

Monday, October 3, 2011

275/365

Kaden figured out how to ride his bike today

Sunday, October 2, 2011

274/365

There are on occasion, days that I have a clear perspective on what I need to do to have my life run smoothly.  Most days, I feel the perspective is a bit blurry and I don't know where to even begin on keeping my life organized, my body healthy, and my kids living productive, yet fun lives.
But today I had a clear vision.  You know what happens when I have a clear vision?
Psycho OCD Turia comes out to play:
I make lists.
I organize and label everything.
I make job charts, daily schedule routines for me and my family, house cleaning charts, I write down goals,  and I actually try to think about what I will cook for dinner for the whole entire week.... this could go on and on.

It's good when I get this clear perspective, even if it's fleeting. I feel like I have to hurry and write everything down that I'm thinking of so that when my blurred mind comes back, I will have a "game plan" of sorts of what I need to do to stay in control.  I wish I could always have a sound understanding of what I need to do to keep my house in order, my family in order and myself in order, but the truth is, it always gets a little blurry.
Today, as I was feeling so great that I had some organization to my life, I realized something I've never really thought of before.  I can pray to stay like this. I can pray for clarity in my life. I can pray for the ability to know what matters most and then prioritize. I can pray for inspiration for my family, I can pray to understand how to eat and live healthier, I can pray for the energy to do it all.
(laaalaaaaalaaaaalaaa) I love it when I have these simple epiphanies in my life.  Life's too hard with the blurred vision that I receive when my life is not in order.  I  need a plan. I know I'll stray from the plan, but the plan itself keeps me focused... even when I may have to tweak it, I'm still focused. I'm still closer to obtaining that sound understanding that I want and need in my life.
So today's life lesson..... pray.  Pray for everything. Not just the basics, but the things that will help me and my family stay happy and focused.  That's the ultimate goal anyway isn't it?
 Why is it that the simplest of answers in life are often the ones I overlook the most?

Saturday, October 1, 2011

273/365

 It's conference weekend. I made the mistake of going to Wal-Mart in between sessions today. OH MY GOSH!!!!   INSANITY! You could barley move in the aisle where the eggs and milk and cheese were. Everyone was there to get their Sunday brunch goodies.
As was I.
Utah is a funny place. I had to go to 3 different stores before I finally found frozen bread dough for monkey bread.  I'm sure we are the only state in the country that has a frozen bread dough shortage a couple times a year.

I guess a whole lot of people have the same tradition as us. Next time I'll remember to go to the store much earlier in the week.

Friday, September 30, 2011

272/365

Last week I went to the Relief Society Broadcast. It was such an amazing night. I learned so much and have felt the spirit of that meeting all week long. There were things said in that meeting that have truly changed the way I think about things. I know I was there for a reason. I know there were things that I needed to hear. 
One of the things that was talked about was to enjoy and celebrate the small achievements we see every day instead of always dwelling on the things we don't accomplish.  We were told to realize that the small successes that we see every day are so important and that we should be proud of them.  If we take things line upon line.... or one step at at time, each one of those small successes will be cause for great celebration in our life if we stop and appreciate them.  
Today, I understood that a little more clearly.  Kaden has been struggling with math a bit lately on these 5 minute timed tests he has to take.  He's been getting really low scores and we've been working really hard to practice these tests several times a week and teach him different tips to help him to them faster.  
Well today, we got to celebrate on of those "small successes".  He finished his timed test and only got 1 wrong!! I was so proud of him! He was so proud of himself.  It was great cause to celebrate.  
As I looked back on this, I thought of the talk at womens conference.  You know, this test was just a small weekly test. Nothing big or fancy.  We could have treated this test like another piece of homework that needed to be signed and returned back to school, but instead we cheered for joy! It was a small success, but brought us such joy because we KNEW how hard Kade had worked on improving his math skills.  
It must be a little like how our Heavenly Father feels when we sees true success in our lives.  He's seen how hard we've worked and He's proud of us.  Whether the accomplishment is big or small, it doesn't matter. All that matters is taking time to appreciate and celebrate those small successes we have each and every day and not focus on the other things in our life that may not be as successful. 

Kaden, I'm so proud of you! You worked so hard and you did a great job!

Thursday, September 29, 2011

271/365

I wish I had a picture of Brian in a frilly little apron, but he would be even more embarrassed. 
This is the year my hubby grows a beard and looks like Grizzly Adams till the snow begins to fall, 
and he also turns into Martha Stewart and spends days canning. 
Hmmmm.. A bearded Martha Stewart? 
We just might have a talk show in the making right now!

Despite my teasing, I will reap the rewards:
15 bottles of peaches
18 bottles of pears
6 bottles of Dill pickles
30 bottles of freezer Jam
and 2 batches of Raspberry Ice Cream
yum. yum
Thanks for your hard work Bri.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

270/365

Kaden has now been in cub scouts for a month. He LOVES it!!
We've been working hard to help him earn his bobcat.  Tonight he got his first award. Bobcat is completed, now he's working on his wolf. He was so excited. I think he reminded us of pack meeting about 10 times in the last couple days.
Way to go buddy!

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

269/365

I went into my room today to see Brighton and Connor watching a movie together. 
Bright was lying there with his arm around his little brother. 
Awwwwww!!

Monday, September 26, 2011

268/365

Avery loves to be girly.  And she loves to show off how beautiful she looks to her dad.  
Every Sunday after she is dressed and her hair is done, she goes into wherever Brian is and will stand there and sway back and forth with a cute smile on her face until Brian says, "Avery, you look so beautiful!' She loves the approval of her daddy. 
Today while I was getting her ready for school she looked in the mirror and said, "I wish dad was here to see me today".
I thought it was so sweet that she wanted to show her dad how pretty she was.  We snapped a photo on my phone and sent it to him right away.  Daddy was quick to text back how beautiful she looked.
Avery's smile went from ear to ear. 
There's something pretty special when it comes to the bond a daddy has with his little girl.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

267/365

Isn't this beautiful? 
We love our Sunday getaways to the mountains.
A few days ago, we came up here for a quick lunch and hike. WE didn't want Kaden to feel too left out, so we brought him up with us this time 
Sadly, we are coming to an end of summer and I don't think we'll be doing too many more Sunday afternoons in the canyons for a while. 
Brian roasted the BEST marshmallows EVER!!

Oh my gosh... could this s'more get any better? Look at it's gooey yumminess.

We love all the fun little pets we find up here.
(Avery started getting a little nervous when the caterpillar started going down her shirt)
 I love Brighton's grubby little hands.  


 and this kids grubby little smile.  




Friday, September 23, 2011

265/365

My nephew Riley had his 9th birthday party today.  He had an angry birds party. I had a blast making his cake.  The best part was that I left off all the characters and structures and let Riley assemble them they way he wanted. His mom said he kept re-arranging them in different scenarios all day.  
I guess it's my first interactive birthday cake!
 Here's the characters.... all edible of course.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

264/365

I've loved blogging every day this year and I'm glad I have, because I think this little guy would be jipped on documenting some of his major milestones. But that being said...... even with me blogging each day, I'm still blown away at what I've missed. 
In less than a week, this little guy has started to crawl and he pulls himself up on everything and he can entertain himself pretty good if there are toys on the floor.  
Man, he's growing up so fast.


His favorite trick is to crawl to the stairs, pull up on the railing and take a few steps.  What a show off!
 

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

263/365

Today we decided to leave the housework and yard behind and go on a picnic and hike up the canyons.  It was so nice to get away, even if it was for only a couple hours.

Sorry we left you behind Kaden. You were already at school. Next time you will have fun with us too!

Monday, September 19, 2011

262/365

We hung out at the park today after school and the kids found a "pet" they brought home and is now living in a jar in Kaden's bedroom.

Meet "Black head".... the water snake.  If he can stay in his cage, he's welcome to stay.  The first time I see him trying to escape, he'll be going back home to the pond.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

261/365

Today we got our family pictures done.  Not just a little family picture, all 26 of us.  Like how Brighton is making a funny face? Avery is sitting in such a feminine way.  Kaden looks shocked that we are taking a picture, I look like a hippo and Brian's ski beard, (ok... he looks pretty hot) Wow... the Larsen's (minus brian) sure added humor to this picture.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

260/365

Happy Birthday Shauna!! 
We love you. 


We had a great night with all of Brian's brothers and sisters as we celebrated Shauna's 60th birthday tonight. It was such a fun night. We had a yummy dinner at our house and enjoyed a night full of games and lots of childhood memories and even more laughs.


Friday, September 16, 2011

259/365

After my post yesterday, I felt a little better about things until I went to pick up Connor off the floor and saw he had pooped all over the carpet.  OH BOY! Let the melt-down begin!
I kinda freiked out, called a carpet cleaner and scheduled a time for him to come today, started gutting every drawer, cupboard and closet in my house and had my little self a crazy person moment.  I made it to the preschool thing, but the rest of the day was left to crazy Turia de-cluttering my house.
Today ended up being a good theraputic day for me.  I got to clean all day long. Usually that would not be my favorite thing in the world, but when my head is cluttered, my house is cluttered, I needed a day to just clear my head and clean my house.  It was a great day! I feel much better!!

So now, my carpets are clean, my cupboards, drawers and closet is organized and I'm back to being not so crazy.  Whew! Glad my little melt down is over.  Sometimes it takes being a crazy person to get stuffed cleared out of your head.  Sorry Brian. You chose to marry me :)

Thursday, September 15, 2011

258/365

All year long I've been capturing moments in our every day life.  I have commented over and over again how I don't want my kids to grow up.  Today I felt a little hypocritical of that and it made me stop and think about my priorities a bit.

Like usual, we all have crazy weeks and days that we are just running here and there. The last few days have been like that for me. I've been working on wedding cakes (surprise, surprise) and have been trying to clean my house all week.  The more I try to deep clean specific rooms, the messier the rest of the house gets. So, needless to say, it's now Thursday and my house is a dive, I'm feeling like I'm living in chaos and I just want a few hours to myself where I can regain focus and clean and organize my house, so I can feel organized again.  Well, this afternoon was supposed to be my time to be able to get a handle on things.
 I got home from Avery's dance class with high hopes for a peaceful 3 hour break....But as usual, it never works out as smoothly as planned.

Got Bright off to preschool.
Got Avery on the bus.
Time to put Connor to bed, but Angie needed some help, so I ran over there for about an hour. That took some of my cleaning time away, which is fine because I love being able to help her in any way since she is ALWAYS there to watch my kids or let me borrow whatever I need.

So I get home and remember that I'm supposed to go to Brightons preschool class today the last 30 minutes to talk about family rules since that's their theme this week.  
                             Here's where I feel I'm needing to change my priorities a bit.  

So, all I want to do is get my dumb house clean.  Why is that such a difficult task?? 
I find myself playing the game in my head where you have the angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other.  In my head, I'm having this little conversation with myself. 

Angel Mom: "I should really go to this preschool thing for Brighton"
Devil Mom:  "Just stay and clean your house"
Angel Mom:  "Remember he's only little once"
Devil Mom: "Oh my gosh, he's only 3... it doesn't matter."
Angel Mom:  "But I should take every opportunity to enjoy the things that matter most. "
Devil Mom:  "Seriously?? Does going to a preschool full of a bunch of 3 year olds and talk about your poster of family rules that you just made up 2 minutes before he left for school really what matters most?? JUST STAY HOME AND CLEAN YOUR HOUSE ALREADY!!!!! IT'S YOUR ONLY BREAK ALL WEEK!" 
Angle Mom:  "But............."
Devil Mom:  "It's preschool already! Geez!! He's your third kid.  It's not that big of a deal. You barely get him dressed each day, why go and listen to a bunch say they need to eat all their dinner and share their toys?  You can talk about rules at home with him. Go clean your damn house. "
Angel Mom: "ahhhh! Oh my!" (gasp!!)  (angel mom would never use the "d" word, but Devil mom can get a potty mouth from time to time).  "You are a terrible mother!" Focus on the things that matter most! Your house does not matter! Showing your kid that you have 15 minutes to be with him DOES matter.  
Maybe the lesson here is for you, Devil mom.... it's not about listening to a bunch of silly rules at a preschool class, but it's about YOU showing your child that they will ALWAYS come first... no matter what." THEY are what matters most.  Not your (uh, hum.... ) "darn" house."
Devil Mom:  (grumble.grumble) "I know, you are right. You win. I'll go get in the car."

The moral of the story is..... Many times as a mom I am struggling with my double identity, but more times than not, I hope Angel Mom wins out when it comes to my family.  Devil mom has her place too, but with the things that matter most, Angel mom needs to ALWAYS win!
Thank goodness she did today.




Wednesday, September 14, 2011

257/365

Sometimes it's the simple things that make the biggest impression on your kids.
Tonight Brian invited Avery to be his "date" to a wedding reception he had to go to for a co-worker.  We told her that the bride would look like a beautiful princess in a pretty white dress and their would be dancing too.  She was so excited, she ran in her room and got on a dress. We got her hair all done up pretty and wanted sparkles in her hair, so she got pretty sparkles.
When she was all dolled up, she went in to Brian and held the sides of her dress as she swayed back and forth and waited for Brian to tell her how beautiful she was.  She lit up and was ready to go on her date.

I'm glad she got to be something special with just her and her dad.  She felt pretty special.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

256/365

This little guy is really starting to enjoy real food! 
He LOVED the corn Brian grew in our garden this year. 

He's also a little obsessed with peaches.  
It started out pretty good.

until we didn't give it to him fast enough.


You would have thought we were starving him to death.
Like I said, He LOVES peaches.

Monday, September 12, 2011

255/365

Went downstairs to get all the 12 month boy clothes today.  As much as it makes me sad that Connor is growing up so fast, I gotta admit, its great knowing I don't have to store old clothes anymore.  Those 3 boxes of 12 month clothes now is an empty space in my storage room!!!
 I love getting rid of things.